But the minute my children entered shidduchim, I decided I would no longer engage in theoretical conversations about the drawbacks.
” “Does the father come to Shul during the week or only on Shabbos?In front of random mirror, in said random location, smear on foundation,eyeshadow, eyeliner, mascara, blush, and lipstick. In taxi, fish in handbag for earrings, necklace, and other random accesossries. Yeah, I know that it's shallow, and they can be fake, and they are after one thing, blah blah, but I'm a woman, and I enjoy it, and now, I miss it.The shidduch date: Sit on sofa, diagonally across from random guy in black hat and black jacket and tie-that-supposedly-shows-yeshiva-bachur's-personality (never quite figured out how that works, is it the stripes vs. Aside from the honest or at least amusing conversation. All that work, it would be nice to get some feedback.” By far, one of the most uncomfortable aspects of being a Shul Rav is fielding shidduch inquiries regarding members of our community of all ages by prospective mates or their parents.Above are just a few of the actual questions I have received in the last few months alone.It is currently accepted, that when starting a new shidduch, the boy doesn't call the girl directly to schedule the date.