We had become numb to the fact that our fights were getting louder, more frequent and happening a lot in front of our kids. This was my best friend that I was at constant war with. Although we were polar opposites, there was something that immediately drew us together.Whether we were hanging out with friends, snowboarding, having a lazy movie marathon, or just goofing off, we were inseparable.
Six years later, we bought a house and got married.
your spouse to come back or work on saving your marriage need to be set aside for a bit.
The main reason for this is that before your spouse desires to be with you, all attempts to convince will just result in rejection and a stronger resolve on your spouse’s part to end the marriage.
After several years of counseling the separated, I am more convinced than ever that Britton Wood is right. But most of those who are dating will never be reconciled. Dating is a prelude to remarriage, not therapy for reconciliation. You are extremely vulnerable during these days of separation.
” I first read that statement in Britton Wood’s book, . Wood has worked with singles and separated persons longer than anyone in his denomination. I know that dating while separated is accepted, even encouraged, in our society. You need people who care and help bear the load, but the dating context is not the best place to find such help.
Use them to protect your dating so that it can last a lifetime for you.